Meet MJ: Hi my name is MJ and my pronouns are they/them.
I have always paddled on and off for most of my life. Either with my parents in our cedar strip canoe on Lake Manitou, an after-work kayak to destress around Toronto Island, or with friends through the small inland islands of Finland. I also enjoy woodworking and craft canoe paddles in my spare time, a hobby I started at the age of 12 and have just recently taken back up.
I took a 10-year break to officiate roller derby and have recently returned to paddle sport in Scotland.
photo by: Andy Toop
Five years ago, during a kayak expedition with some of my roller derby friends in Finland, I had the time and space to breath and think. I had been struggling with my gender identity for 20 years, but only recently language changed to include those who do not fit into binary gender roles. I have always said that language has finally caught up with me, I did not catch up to language.
After that trip I started the new chapter of my life, coming out as a transgendered non-binary person. I really believe that would not have happened if I was not on the water. Paddlesport is life changing for some.
Since then, the road has not been smooth as a non-binary trans person. I know the journey is worth it, not only for myself, but the others that come after. I have been known as “ MJ, The Changer of Forms” which has included the SCAs’ membership form. If a person cannot even fill out a form because they are not represented by it, then how can there be an expectation for them to participate?
I joined the committee to ensure non-binary queer representation and to assist in policy changes so that the SCA can truly represent all people and allow for greater participation of all people in paddlesport no matter their identity or intersectionality.
Since joining the committee there have been some mis-gendering moments, but I have to say that there has been incredible support, self-reflection, self-correcting and people educating themselves to understand the nuances of inclusivity and intersectionality to become strong allies. There is a genuine want to make things better for all people to enjoy paddle sport.
I have paddled most type of boats, but my currently favorite vessel is my Alpacka Wolverine Packraft. Like non-binary folks, packrafting can be mis-understood by the broader paddling community. However, the packable, robust and lightweight adaptable boat opens up so many different worlds of adventure, especially those off the beaten path.